A TRANSFORMATIVE APPROACH
This work is pleasure-based and revolutionary, setting it apart from traditional sex therapy.
As a seasoned Sexologist, I invite you on a transformative journey to becoming fully you and freeing your sexual fire. Together, we'll redefine pleasure, connection, and fulfillment, going beyond the conventional norm of “good enough.”
Diverse Expertise
With over 20 years in the field of sexual education, advanced training in psychology, and the goals oriented insight of an expert coach, Jackie's skill set provides you with a wide range of resources and support.
Unlock Your Erotic Style
Jackie has a gift for teaching how to know and receive the erotic energy you crave, and how to give the style of erotic energy and touch your partner craves. She offers creative solutions for even the most challenging erotic mismatches in couples.
Unique Approach
Jackie integrates techniques from her many years of learning with various tools, including talk, breath, touch, and more, creating a unique and transformative experience.
INDIVIDUALS
Embrace Your Sexual Self: Uncovering Desire, Identity, and Intimacy
Many people think that sexual exploration through coaching is only for those in relationships. Not true!
In fact, one of the best times to explore your sexuality is when you’re focusing on yourself—discovering your desires, identity, and what makes you tick as a sexual being.
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My role as your coach can look different depending on your goals. For some I am a trusted mentor, troubleshooting, exploring, and celebrating!
For others, I am a partner, working together in a “relationship lab” to explore connection, intimacy, and sexual energy in the moment.
For ALL, I provide a safe and loving container to explore sexuality-something most people have never had.
Some of my areas of expertise include:
Helping you become an incredible lover
Building healthy boundaries/navigating consent like an expert
Discovering the relationship style that works for you
Exploration of sexual or gender identity
Uncovering and moving through challenges in relating romantically or sexually
Learning more about your desires and getting them fulfilled
Dating coaching, including navigating online dating
Pelvic pain, including vaginismus and vulvodynia
Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
Body image work, especially around body neutrality and sexual self-acceptance.
COUPLES
Rediscover Passion: A Couple's Journey to Deeper Connection
If you find yourself yearning for what you once had together, or perhaps never had together, this is the path to redefining your relationship.
With renewed safety and trust comes connection, increased desire, and communication that is authentic and real. This is where the fun begins! What do we want together now that we can be our truest selves with each other?
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Delving into the realm of couples or partnerships is a deeply rewarding aspect of my practice. Witnessing lovers awaken their self-awareness and understanding of each other is truly magnificent.
Many couples arrive in my office carrying the weight of pain, feeling unheard, and stuck in repetitive arguments. Despite their attempts to communicate, the same issues persist. I introduce a transformative approach to communication and relating, enabling partners to move beyond shame, judgment, and defensiveness.
In a profound moment, the barriers drop away, leaving partners with a shared desire for safety, love, and understanding. With renewed safety and trust, connection flourishes, desire increases, and authentic communication emerges. This marks the beginning of an exciting journey—exploring what partners truly want now that they can be their authentic selves with each other.
Couples work may be for you if:
You seek to improve communication and understanding.
You feel stuck in a sexual or intimate rut.
You experience a mismatch in libido.
Shame or embarrassment stops you from talking about your sex life.
You feel like you communicate your needs but still feel unfulfilled.
You want to make an already good sex life great!
You have emotional hurts in need of repair
Your attachment styles leave you feeling unsupported by one another
You are in need of support during a relationship transition
BDSM & KINK EXPLORERS
Embrace the Unknown: Navigating BDSM, Kink, and Your Erotic Self
This judgment-free space is crafted for individuals navigating the realms of BDSM, kink, and fetish exploration.
Whether you're a seasoned explorer or a curious newcomer, I provide a transformative experience that empowers you to unlock your desires and embrace your authentic erotic self.
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Society often categorizes desires into boxes of acceptable and unacceptable. Just like our personalities and life choices, our sexual turn-ons are shaped by various factors. With advanced training in the world of Kink, Fetish, and BDSM, I offer a judgment-free space actively celebrating clients' desires, even if they may be considered unconventional.
Areas of focus include:
Exploring new interests in kink.
Integrating desires into rich play.
Sharing kinkiness with a potential partner.
Navigating partner mismatches and finding common ground.
Developing physical skills in activities like spanking, flogging, bondage, and more.
Embracing Dominant or submissive energy.
Providing the desired play or energy for a kinky partner.
Ensuring safety, negotiation, and boundaries related to kink or BDSM play.
These explorations offer a safe and celebratory space for clients to embrace and understand their desires, fostering a transformative journey of self-discovery and connection.
Reclaim Your Erotic Self
Embrace a deeper connection and reignite the passion in your life with tailored guidance that enhances every aspect of your intimate well-being.
Less Shame, More Self-Acceptance:
Clients frequently remark on Jackie’s warm, loving energy. In the realm of sexuality, having an expert that also makes you feel safe is vital in helping you explore things that you may have never have expressed before.
Intuitive Pacing
Jackie has an almost uncanny intuition when it comes to knowing the pace and process that will work best for each of her clients, stemming from years of grounded connection with a range of people and their individual nervous systems and experiences.
An Understanding Of Life’s Challenges
Jackie may be an expert, but she is also human. She is a wife, a parent, and caregiver for a disabled family member, and knows first hand the impact stress, burn-out, and trauma can have on intimacy. This life experience allows her to give guidance that is realistic and optimistic.
A Personalized Path to Pleasure and Transformation
In person or online coaching of individuals, couples, or polycule relationships. My sessions are 75 minutes long, rather than the more typical 50 minutes, allowing us to dive more deeply without feeling rushed. I typically see clients weekly or every other week.
Intensive half or full day in-person sessions are available for clients wishing to dig deep, for long-distance clients wanting an in-person experience, or for couples wanting to develop skills and movement quickly.